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It’s my party and I’ll change my blog if I want to

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I gave the theme blog thing my best shot, but I don’t go places often enough or meet new people enough anymore to keep it up. Plus I hate leaving my house in the summer. Also I realized this is my damn blog and I can do what I want with it, so there. I can even say damn!

I’m in the middle of planning two parties a week apart. The first is my daughter’s second birthday party, which we’re having at Powell Gardens. Last time we were there they had a fairy house exhibit with cute gems like this:

Look very closely and you'll see a fairy's favorite cartoon character. It's really tiny there by the back door!

And this:

The Fairy Lounge.

I also get to indulge in my Little House on the Prairie fantasies at Powell Gardens:

Little Zen Shelter in the Big Slough

So, we’re renting a room in the main building. Apparently there’s also a fountain the kids can play in, though mommy will probably be in there too because EGADS I hate sweating and being outside in the summer. It’s all very exciting.

The next weekend my mom and I are hosting a Harry Potter party with some close friends, then going to the movie.  We’ll do Voldetortes, Butterbeers and make owls.

I'm naming mine Herbert Hoover. Get it?-Courtesy Google Images

Oh yes.

My husband made me feel so old a few nights ago. He turned to me and said, “does it freak you out that you were 12 when the first Harry Potter book came out?” I got that funny feeling in my stomach like “OMG, I am going to die someday,” and then I fainted. Not really, but I might have squeaked.

What’s been your favorite party that you’ve been to or thrown, the one you’ll never forget about?

You thought the Nelson-Atkins was only about shuttlecocks

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The inscription on the building says, ” the soul has more need of the ideal than the real.”

Making Kansas City Better

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There was a really interesting story on NPR (where I hear all the interesting stories) on Steve Kraske’s show the other day. The KC Chamber of Commerce is asking for ideas of goals that the city can strive to meet in the coming years. The project name is The Big Five, because at the end of the summer, the chamber will choose five ideas to unveil at the governor’s summit.

If I were running this contest, I would call it The Big One. While Kansas City does have a lot of issues that need to be fixed, the Big One is our woeful lack of decent public transportation.

And really, it wouldn’t be a contest. I’d just unveil it to the governors and be like BAM. Yes, we do have a bus system. The city is working towards a light rail and/or streetcar solution to the transportation problem. But we needed this done yesterday. Kansas City is one of the largest metros in the U.S. in terms of sprawl. It takes at least an hour to get from Olathe to the airport. 30 minutes to get from most of the suburbs to the city. The city is so spread out that many kids in the Southland don’t go to the Northland until they’re able to drive themselves and vice versa. The one thing I have heard every transplant bemoan is the paltry system in place.

Not only would a larger light rail/busing system help people save money over owning cars, but it would also significantly reduce pollution. I know these arguments I’m making aren’t new; they’ve been made for years. However, I can’t think of anything that would improve the city more in terms of mobility, bring in more tourists and bring in more income for the city than a mass transit system that completely covered the city and the suburbs.

Maybe I’m wrong though. Reader, what would be your idea for The Big One?

Jessie goes to 39th Street

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It’s been a strange, disaster-filled week. I’m sure all of you have heard about the tornado that leveled part of Joplin last weekend. It happened just a few hours after my in-laws drove through on their way back home (probably for a good, long time. But that’s another story). Then we had tornado scares here in Kansas City on Wednesday. Sedalia was hit with a small tornado, but luckily no one was killed. Finally, there’s been a good dose of family drama this week. So by the time my Thursday night out with my writing workshop buddies rolled around I was ready for a stiff drink and a bit of comforting. Usually we actually work on our writing, but this week we decided to take a field trip to the Writer’s Place open house.

Susan and Julia are two other writers in the weekly workshop I attend every Thursday, which is one of my favorite days of the week now.

Blue Koi Noodles and Dumplings sits on 39th street and State Line Road on the Missouri side of the border. It’s right down the street from the KU teaching hospital, those lucky bastards, and it’s surrounded by small, unique businesses such as our local New Yahk pizza place (that’s how New Yorkers say it, right?).

D'Bronx

In a poll taken in my head, 4 out of 10 New Yorkers approved of this pizza.

D’Bronx is probably one of the more famous restaurants on 39th street. The place started here (I’m too lazy to make sure that’s actually true) and it has three more locations in Overland Park, Mission and Crown Center. Everyone writes on the brick walls. Probably the best part of going is reading up on who loves who, who was there, what people think of the president.

Prosperos Bookstore is also on the street. The whole store smells like books, which is a feature chain bookstores haven’t figured out how to do yet, and see how they’re going out of business? Obviously it’s the book smell that lures people in. They have two floors stacked floor to ceiling with books. All. Kinds. Of. Books.

Prosperos Book Store

Smells like home.

Once I got to Blue Koi I promptly forgot about taking a picture of the outside. Then I made a really stupid joke to the waitress about how restaurants should automatically waive carding anyone who orders Malbec, and it took her like, 10 minutes to laugh. Then I drank a glass of Malbec and forgot to take pictures of my food. In case you’re wondering, the Malbec is fabulous there.

Blue Koi Menu

I went to Blue Koi and all I took a picture of was this menu.

Oh well. The pork dumplings and China Moon appetizer were delicious, as always. The three of us managed to get all eight of our dumplings down our collective gaping maws, then we rolled ourselves to the Writer’s Place open house to learn more about what they do. I made myself look extraordinarily stupid in front of a creative writing professor I had (note to all of you, don’t ask if someone has seen Megan around and expect them to know which of the million Megans in the world you’re talking about). It was just a really awkward conversation. Luckily, I feel right at home making a fool of myself.

The Writer's Place

Totally the setting of a "dark and stormy night" story.

In case you haven’t been, The Writer’s Place is super cool. They bring in authors several times a month to do readings, host open mics and offer writing workshops (which can be a little expensive unfortunately) to the community. They also have an art gallery inside, and, my favorite part, the bathroom is the most giant bathroom I’ve ever been inside.

Susan and I walked slowly back to my car, discussing which houses on the street we would buy and what we would do with them. The sun was still out, the air was cool, I was slightly buzzed and it was lovely.

Look out over the weekend for a Powell Gardens extravaganza post. Oh yes, I know you’re excited. As one of my friends asked me, “which is your favorite episode of Matlock?” Here’s a teaser:

Fairy House

This is where little old ladies come to roost.

Piles of whipped cream

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Thunderheads over the Midwest

Thunderheads over the Midwest

It’s a little more dangerous than whipped cream, but wouldn’t it be lovely if instead of raining down thousands in hail damage and possible tornadic damage, these clouds would drop fluffy, sweet, delicious whipped cream down on us?

Well, ok, on a day as hot as today maybe the rain is preferable.

Cowtown Polling

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Slice of Cowtown is back

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Kansas City Central Library

The Central Library: one of my favorite buildings in Cowtown. Courtesy Google Images.

I’ve decided to reopen the blog. There are a lot of exciting things happening in my life, but the most exciting of all is that I’ve decided to dedicate myself to writing more. I’m going to continue writing profiles about people and to go to events in Kansas City. This was my original intention for the blog, but I got sidetracked by things like babies, marriage and work. You know, not much.

I’m really excited to start interviewing people and to start writing about the gems in Kansas City. The people and places here don’t get nearly enough credit. Like most teenagers, I was desperate to get out of Kansas City when I graduated from high school. However, once I started working for UMKC’s student newspaper as a writer, then the culture editor, I learned so much about the culture scene and the people here. Now the places I travel are always compared to Kansas City and they always come up short. I’d like to inspire others with some sense of how awesome Cowtown is.

As time goes on, I’d love to have guest bloggers as well who write about the people and places in their cities. Posts by anyone else from Kansas City would also be wonderful.

Here’s to new beginnings!

Sense of community

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Hey all! I haven’t been posting much because I’m working on a new community blog. Check it out! We’re now The Women’s Outpost, but we’re changing our name and site soon.

The Power Within Us

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I truly believe in the power of premonition and I always try to follow it through when I feel like something needs to be done. Usually it’s me feeling the need to take a thing with me when I leave the house. That is the case this morning. The baby and I are readying ourselves for our morning walk. Every time I walk past my camera bag hanging on the coat rack I have a wild compulsion to snatch the camera out and put it around my neck. I argue with myself, “you are going to look stupid and stalker-ish to the neighbors” vs. “shut your pie hole and stop worrying what everyone else is thinking; you enjoy taking photos!”

So, I take it. Lucky me. As baby and I are strolling down the street, I hear “ain’t this a wonderful day?” Across the street stands a man by his garage. He’s wearing white overalls with no shirt on underneath, sunglasses and a black bandanna with skulls on it. Not a positive first impression in terms of outerwear, but I like anyone who talks to strangers. “Sure is,” I reply. He walks across the street and asks if he can give my daughter a quarter. “Yeah, ok,” I say bemused, as if an 11-month-old can do anything with a quarter besides choke on it. “You like strawberries?” he asks. Well, who doesn’t like strawberries? Crazy people, that’s who.

I follow him to his backyard.

Wait, let me backup a little first. My husband and I go for walks all the time in the evening and we have always admired this house. It has a raised-bed farm in the back. We always talk about how we wish we could do that and how much it would cut down on the grocery bill if we had fresh produce. This guy is taking me to the very backyard my husband and I admire so much. I’m hoping to get gardening tips, plus I know the backyard is clearly visible from the street because of the catty-cornered way the house sits on its lot. Also, I leave the baby’s stroller out front thinking that maybe if he kills us someone will spot the stroller and our bodies can be found.

Once we take off toward the back I tell him how much my husband and I admire the vegetable beds and how we’d like to have some of our own, but we just don’t know how to do it. “What’s so hard about throwing some seeds in the ground and leaving them there?” he asks, looking at me as if I were from Mars. “Oh well, don’t you need to plant them at a certain time or something?” Already I feel like an idiot. “Hunh, I don’t know anything about that,” he replies. We weave around the side of the house on a raised wooden path to the backyard. The yard is filled with 8 raised beds in two neat lines, and has another four beds sectioned off by berry bushes.

He proudly points out his garlic plants, cherry bushes, strawberry shrubs, his failed blueberry experiment, squashes, tomatoes, unripened raspberries, eggplant and a host of other vegetables and fruits. His backyard is basically the Garden of Eden. He cuts several small strawberries off the plant for me and the baby. I brush the dirt away and took the tiniest of bites. I expect it to be tart because it was such a small berry (the size of the top knuckle of my thumb) but it is sweet and warm.

He tells me he spends all day tending to this garden. “This is what I grew up doing and I like it.” He also spends the day mowing the land behind a row of five or six houses. “I just do it; no one asks me to. Sometimes I mow the lawn across the street because no one else does.” I ask him what he does for money. “Nothing. I’m not scared of anything. I’ve chosen to be homeless before,” he ticks off the cities on his fingers “I was homeless in Denver, Miami and here in Kansas City for awhile.”

He talks a little about his roommate’s pets. I’m curious about what kind of roommate would let someone live in their house for free. “How did you meet your roommate? I mean, did you just meet him randomly and he let you live in his house?” The man pulls back his bandanna to reveal a giant dent in his skull. He asks amusedly, “do you think someone is going to rent a house to a person who has a dent like this in their head?”

Examining his head I ask how he got the dent. “With a .45,” he’s almost proud when he says this. “You lived through someone shooting you in the head?” I imagine his skull was grazed by a bullet and he’s just talking himself up. “I shot myself in the head,” he said. “A friend of mine told me the oriental mafia was after me, so I thought I’d get myself before they got me.” I shake my head in amazement at my ability to find people with such amazing stories. “So when did you … I mean, when was that?” He tells me 1987 and again I shake my head. This guy tried to commit suicide the same year I was born.

We walk around a little more and examine the hanging strawberry plants he has. I hem and haw about how the baby and I need to be finishing up our walk. As we walk around the front I tell him how nice it was to meet him and ask him his name. “I’m JR.” I stick out my right hand, “I’m Jessie, it’s nice to meet you JR.” He grasps only the tips of my fingers as if we’re Victorian dancing partners. “Oh wait! I like to write stories about people I think are interesting; can I take a picture of you?” Yes, I believe in the power of premonition. Amazing things happen when you believe.

We all have powers.

Ta-Dah! The new Slice of Cowtown is here!

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Today marks a turning point for Slice of Cowtown. Let’s start at the beginning.

I’ve always had a knack for getting really interesting stories out of people. Once, I met a woman at a fashion show here in Kansas City who had acted on Broadway. Recently, in Chicago, I met a couple who had recently come from the world’s largest Medieval conference in Kalamazoo, MI (let me tell you, I’m a dork for Medieval stuff and I almost lost my cookies when I heard that). Everyone in this world has a story. For a long time I’ve wanted to write their stories, or at least a story about each person. So this is what I’m starting today. And yes, I’m going easy for the first few. I still need to nail down the format. But, here goes!

Megan, 23, native Kansas Citian—Writer

Megan is nothing if not pragmatic. “If I were a singing star, just thinking logistically, I’d be a country singer because they stick around the longest,” she says. “I mean, Brooks and Dunn is just now retiring. They’ve been around for 25 years. That doesn’t happen in pop music; people just forget about you.”

But giving up on her singing is the thing she regrets most. Megan went to high school in Platte City, Mo. There, she regularly competed in and placed in state choir competitions. “I go to concerts and cry,” she pauses. “I couldn’t get through the overture of Wicked without crying.” She says she misses the excitement and nerves from singing in front of people and wishes she had kept up with singing.

Just being alive is nothing short of a miracle. Although she doesn’t make a big deal of it, Megan had a skull tumor when she was seven. Constantly hitting her head forced the tumor to grow outward for awhile, giving the appearance of a large knot on her head. However, the doctors said it would have gone back to growing in toward her brain. She says she’s lucky her family caught it when they did, otherwise the tumor would have hit her brain. “I would have been braindead,” she says casually.

Megan’s Mother said she was scared when they first heard about the tumor, but decided “if God wants us to go through this, then we’ll go through this,” she laughs. “We had that talk in a McDonald’s parking lot when I was 14.” Her Mom is the most influential person in her life. “I don’t want to be cliché.” Megan says she’s observed what her mother has gotten right and what she hasn’t as she’s gotten older. “I realize her weaknesses as I become an adult. But she taught me that I’m in control of what I want to happen in my life.”

Inside the Actor’s Studio Ten Questions as Answered by Megan

  1. What is your favorite word? Caked. Like mud caked on something. I love the caked on visual, the idea of that, I don’t know, I like it as a descriptive word.
  2. What your least favorite word? I hate the word, hold on, I’m trying to think of it. It’s a facial description. Is it grimace? No, it’s not grimace (I suggest scowl). Scowl, yes! I do not like that word. I’m like, what is a scowl? I see them making the owl sound with their mouth and making angry eyes. I don’t think the word describes the action very well.
  3. What turns you on? Food. Indulging in a good meal, or cooking a good meal. It’s a very sensual pleasure that leads to other pleasures.
  4. What turns you off? Smoking.
  5. What sound do you love? Running water. Preferably naturally running water. It’s not like I like turning on the faucet and just sitting there. Preferably I’ll be sitting by a river or ocean.
  6. What sound do you hate? The sound Ben (her fiancée) makes with his mouth when his throat itches. I can’t describe it. It’s a sound he makes with his tongue in the back of his mouth.
  7. What is your favorite curse word? Ah balls! Bollocks.
  8. What profession other than yours would you like to attempt? I’d like to be a singer if I was ballsier and a better singer.
  9. What profession would you not like to do? Any accounting stuff. If I had to look at math all day I’d kill myself. Sometimes doing the deposit at Starbucks (her day job) makes me want to kill myself.
  10. If heaven exists, what would you like to hear god say when you arrive at the pearly gates? I don’t know, “Thanks for trying.” For trying to lead a good life and trying to be a good person. Like, “I appreciate your efforts.” So you want God to validate you? Yeah, pretty much. Just like Oprah says!
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